BDD – SUGGESTED GUIDELINES FOR FAMILY MEMBERS AND FRIENDS: TAKE TIME FOR YOURSELF
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It’s important to have some time for yourself—for your responsibilities and the things you enjoy. Don’t use this time to participate in BDD rituals or provide excessive care for the person with BDD. Some family members feel they need to provide this care all the time. But by overprotecting the BDD sufferer and being overly involved in their life—without paying enough attention to your own—you can inadvertently communicate to them that they’re incapable of better functioning and can’t do things themselves. This can undermine their sense of confidence and self-worth. You may actually boost their feelings of self-confidence by encouraging them to do more on their own. You’ll also probably feel better yourself by taking a break from the BDD, which may make your support more effective. So don’t feel guilty about taking some time for yourself. If someone with BDD really does require intensive care and very close monitoring – for example, because they’re so impaired, depressed, or suicidal-you probably need to get them more intensive psychiatric care. At the same time, don’t avoid or give up on the BDD sufferer. Let them know that you care, support them, and want to help them overcome BDD.
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