FEMALE SEXUALITY WITH AGE
Posted: under Women's Health.
Compared with men, women are the physiologically resilient sex. Masters and Johnson found that older women are just as capable of reaching orgasm as young adults. In many areas of arousal and performance, female sexual capacities change little with age. When the years make a woman more self-confident and sharpen her sexual skills, sex may become better after age fifty, more passionate than ever before.
Often this physiological potential is untapped. Although the machinery is intact, the mind turns off. Gaining weight, defining oneself as “dried up” or ”menopausal,” and putting energy into mothering, not lovemaking, prevent many women from getting to step one – turning the engine on, wanting to have sex.
And it is hard to tango alone. In the Duke studies, “marital status” was the most important predictor of a woman’s sex life. Older women with a husband living were likely to still be having intercourse. Only a small fraction of those over sixty who were widowed, single, or divorced were.
While some women are able to stay interested in sex without having a partner – masturbating often, having an active fantasy life – many turn off. Perhaps because feeling desirable is so crucial to feeling desire, while the chance of being without a partner increases as a woman ages, in both the Duke and Consumers Union studies, decade by decade the proportion of women having sexual feelings declined even more steeply than was true for men.
It is also not accurate to say that nothing changes physiologically after age fifty. Menopause does cause physical changes that can sometimes have striking sexual side effects. Fifty is the average age when American women today reach menopause – the programmed shutdown of the ability to conceive and bear children.
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